Depending on which way your uterus is tilted, there may be different sex positions that work better for you. “Woman on top is a great position because it gives you complete control around the depth and speed of penetration,” McKimmie says. Oral sex is another great way to achieve orgasm with a tilted uterus, without penetration, she adds. Experts also recommend using the Ohnut donut-shaped rings. “That allows the receiver to find comfort in any position as it limits the depth of penetration, whether with a penis or a dildo if the partner is strapping on,” sex and relationship coach Ashley Manta tells Woman’s Day.
Girl on top is also an excellent position if you sometimes feel a little insecure between the sheets but want to put that problem to bed. “It can be confidence-building because it physically helps women to be in control,” Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of Because It Feels Good: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction, tells Woman’s Day. Just make sure you do it in a way that makes you feel best. “Woman on top can be done kneeling, squatting, facing forward, or facing backward,” she adds. “Show off whatever you or your partner loves most about your body.”
There are plenty of positions that work in same-sex relationships that also get their fair share of action in heterosexual relationships. Sitting on your partner’s face is great for all kinds of stimulation, primarily oral, but it makes way for fingering or using sex toys in your vagina or anus.
“She’ll have one or both hands free to hold your hips or caress your butt,” sex therapist Vanessa Marin tells Woman’s Day. “You can control the pressure by pulling your body away or pressing down.” Not to mention, orgasms in this position can feel very intense, Marin adds. “It will bring a whole new meaning to ‘weak in the knees.'”